How to learn to kiss: practical advice

December 20, 2013

 How to learn to kiss
   In his youth, almost all concerned about how to learn to kiss, the kiss properly, bringing pleasure to yourself and your partner. To master the art of kissing everyone can, but this requires not only the basic theoretical knowledge and practical training. It is necessary to learn a little bit to literally maddening kisses his partner.


Why do people kiss?

In modern society, a kiss - one of the easiest ways to express their warm feelings. Kiss the children and their parents, relatives and friends, acquaintances, and sometimes even pets. But these kisses are not erotic painting. It is quite another thing - kissing lovers. Such kissing, no matter how chaste they may seem, always sexy and full of bright emotions.

Of particular importance is the first kiss, he is usually remembered for a long time, if not forever. However, in the future with the development of relationships kissing important. It is known that couples who kiss each other often, and a lot more happy than those who refused this affection.


Preparing for a kiss

Dry and chapped lips do not look too attractive and do not cause the desire to kiss them. At the same time soft and smooth lips to name just a kiss. To achieve such a soft and smooth is a snap both girls and guys, just enough to give up the habit of licking his lips and get a special scrub for lips. However, the scrub is quite possible to cook yourself, using any hypoallergenic fat cream and fine sugar. Also, it makes the skin more smooth lips will help ordinary honey.

Girls often try to make your lips more attractive with makeup, but so often reach the opposite effect. Few people want to be spoiled in a bright and oily lipstick or touch the sticky gloss. Therefore, travelers are more suitable balms, which will only make the lips more vivid shade and add a little sparkle.

Fresh breath - the key to the success of a kiss. Perhaps needless to remind of the need to be regularly cleaned and, if necessary, to treat teeth. But for many people forget cleaning the tongue, and it is in vain: for language usually is actively involved in a kiss. Immediately before his appointment does not get involved in eating and smoking ostropahnuschih products - like fragrances do not add attractiveness kiss.


Education kisses

Of course, it is best to learn to practice kissing with a gentle and understanding (and ideally even with a loving and beloved) partner. The beauty of the first kiss in his modesty and lack of experience is compensated by feelings experienced by kissing. Yet many dream not to lose face and have the very first time to demonstrate the ability to kiss a partner. It is possible, if you study the typical mistakes kissing.

What are the mistakes people commonly accept a kiss? Here are the most typical:

  • Excessive inactivity. If a person dies and does not react to kisses his partner may be perfectly natural to doubt that his affection pleasant;
  • Excessive activity. You should not rub on the partner, as if trying to swallow him whole. Do not use your teeth - like it is not all, and certainly out of place during the first kiss. There is no need to push the language as deeply as possible into the throat of the partner. To what step up the pace - the beauty of a kiss is not in the speed of movement;
  • Too tight lips. Muscles tense mouth with a kiss, but do lips should be soft and relaxed. It should work out to achieve this result;
  • Slobbering kisses. If the partner has to wipe the kiss, it is unlikely that he or she will appreciate caress high. During a kiss must constantly swallowing;
  • Too dry kisses. At the same time, dry kissing too many find boring, formal, fresh and sensual enough;
  • Monotonous kisses. It often happens that young people learn one technique and calm down on this. As a result, all the kisses are obtained in one way: for example, grasping the lower or upper lips, or tongue retraction with a partner, or vice versa, with the insistent use of their own language. But the monotony kills love. It is better to try different techniques and alternate various techniques, seeking to please your loved one.

It is enough to avoid these errors to earn the rank of a man who knows how to kiss. At the same time the most important thing - it does not take the time to show your loved one knowing all the tricks, and be sensitive to your partner. Taking into account all the preferences of the partner can give him great pleasure. The first kiss is a test of what methods seem to be particularly attractive to your loved one - in the future these techniques should be given special attention.

And what do those who have a partner yet? If the theoretical knowledge is not enough, you can work out ... on tomatoes. This method of training kisses to try out more than one generation of people. Bite tomato, should be gently suck the juice out of it, trying not to spill a drop.


The first and subsequent kisses

Kiss should begin with a light touch his lips to the partner. Slightly closed lips to touch, move away for a moment, and then touch more boldly, tilting her head to one side and his mouth open. This is followed by gently grab his partner's mouth and lips to make soft sucking motion with the top, then lower lip. During the first kiss is better to refrain from the use of language.

In the future, the language can and should be used can try to explore the tense tongue mouth partner to hold his lips, gently stroking his tongue. You can alternately tense and relax the tongue for best effect. You can flutter tongue or the language they envelop partner - all the options are countless, as long as they give pleasure to both partners.

Maria Bykov

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  • psychological help

Happy family life and its secrets

November 27, 2013

 happy family life
   All people dream of happiness and harmony and a happy family life takes in these dreams is one of the main places. However, it is no secret that a happy marriage is found not so often. Almost half of marriages end in divorce, and in those marriages are not save, the relationship is often far from ideal. Yet the opportunity to have a better life.


Hard Labour

It is often said that life together - it's hard work. It seems that the family created by those who believe life is too carefree and wants to forget about this idyll. There is a new unit of society - and for days of fun, you can forget: now it is necessary to constantly work, building a relationship with a husband or wife.

So whether things really are? Of course, the simple answer to this question can not be. In some families, relationships are built relatively easily, while others (especially those who are not too Heed to the choice of a partner, yielding to the feelings) really have to work hard to build a life together. Often it happens so that all efforts are useless: the marriage ends in divorce.

In some cases, even before the wedding, you can predict whether a marriage happy. For example, statistics show that a much greater chance of lasting and happy relationship with those couples who are quite familiar with each other. No doubt, the "precocious" marriages are successful, too, yet couples who met before the wedding at least nine months, luckier. It is tempting to rush headlong into the maelstrom of feelings, forgetting everything, but those coming to marriage rationally, carefully choosing a partner, marriages are much more likely to be successful.

Such qualities as immaturity, selfishness, self-centeredness, conflict and relationship are not conducive to a happy relationship. At the same time, responsibility, ability to negotiate and to compromise, tolerance promise (though not guaranteed) happiness in marriage.


It does not just stamp

Family - is more than a stamp in the passport. Often, young people are in a hurry to issue marriage in the naive belief that a marriage certificate has some kind of magical power to transform a loved one. For example, many women expect that after the wedding of their beloved frivolous become a reliable and responsible, and the men hope that after the registration of marriage, their darling wakes love cooking borsch. When it appears that those expectations will not come true, comes disappointment.

It is not necessary to idealize marriage registration - in the end, it's just a formality, which has no impact on relations. It is much more constructive than to seek the coveted stamp in the passport, and to ensure that build trust, respect and a warm and loving relationship with your loved one.


Secrets of family life

How to build a happy relationship? Some generics does not exist, but after all, dealing with couples who consider their marriage a happy one, it is possible to deduce some regularity.

  • Secret one: unity. General views of common life priorities, common goals. In a couple of partners always provide each other support in all spheres of life, because they are - one team. And this unity will not violate any friends or colleagues or relatives.
  • Secret two: compromise. You can not always think alike. But differences of opinion - not the reason for the conflict, but merely an incentive to find new common ground and new solutions that will satisfy both parties. Such concessions - it is not a defeat but a victory: the victory of love over selfishness. It should be emphasized, however, that concessions must be mutual: otherwise the relationship will be inharmonious.
  • Secret three: mutual respect. For some reason, many believe that courtesy and respect - this is such a mask to outsiders. And with close people can behave naturally: that is to go in a dirty robe, rude, ordering and humiliate. In happy families like that is unacceptable. Relationships are respectful and many years after the wedding.
  • Secret Four: adoption. It is often said that the family takes patience. However, this word has a negative connotation: usually tolerate the pain. Meanwhile, it is better not to tolerate a spouse who does not want to conform to the ideal, and take it for what it is - imperfect. Transform the other person is not possible, but if the relationships are built on love, it is really love a man with his faults.
  • Secret Five: trust and mutual understanding. People in happy couples do not expect the partner to guess their desires or grievances: they speak directly about their feelings and know that they will be heard. However, they believe that what will not be used against them later.
  • Secret Six: sex. No matter how often the spouse in need of proximity, it is important that this closeness delivered both enjoy. Over the years, sex often takes a back seat, but do not underestimate this part of life: sexual dissatisfaction negatively affects the relationship.
  • Secret Seven: touch. Tactile contact gives the feeling of security, warmth and love. The couple's life should remain a place gentle touch, hugs, kisses - not as a prelude, and just.
  • Secret Eight: not just stability. Stable relations are very valuable, but at some point, couples may be bored in each other's company. It is important to find the right balance between stability and diversity. And not necessarily cool me all my life: sometimes it is enough some little things that will change the rhythm, and allow for a fresh look at each other.
  • Secret Nine: joy. Do you desire more natural than to please a loved one? But in the bustle of everyday small pleasures are often overshadowed. But people really appreciate the attention and the desire to please.

Maria Bykov

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  • Family Psychology