The best sexual position - a relaxed, easy, and with the right approach, bringing the maximum pleasure pose. Each partner is trying to find the one that he likes.
In earlier times, the missionary position and meant sex. But then came the seventies, and women took up a position at the top. In vogue all the variety of "Kama Sutra" and the woman who is not possessed a variety of positions, had to feel hopelessly backward. Feminists and sex experts agreed that the missionary position condemns a woman to a passive and subordinate role. It is not surprising that women do not reach orgasm every time in this position - the clitoris can not get enough stimulation, not to mention the point G.
So, the bottom turned out to be unfashionable. If you would like to be a modern woman, I had to take responsibility for themselves, to control the process, otherwise you will not see orgasm. But it would become orgasms often or better from the positions in which had to twist unnaturally bend and neck? Helped whether all these gymnastic exercises make lovemaking more enjoyable? Perhaps we should all be overestimated again?
Best for girls
Think about it - look you better hovering over the man, when visible stretch marks and all the jumps and shakes - or when you're lying with upturned face, slightly ajar in anticipation of his lips, and your hair is in a beautiful mess scattered on the snow-white pillows? The missionary position is feminine and attractive. And do not say that it is not erotic. Flex the back, look at the man with the expression "take me" and see how it moves.
Of all the possible positions of this - the most aesthetically attractive. You do not need to worry about how your body looks, because most of it is hidden under the body of a man. And you do not have to worry about, well you cope. Everyone knows what to do in this position. You lie on your back and can nothing to think, relax and have fun. This is an excellent position for shy or just lazy. You can concentrate on the sensations.
No other position does not give you the possibility to feel as intimacy and love between you. You face each other face to face and can kiss and look for a partner. You see the expression on his face - that in itself is an erotic experience - and your hands are free and you can gently caress or passionately compress partner. The missionary position is ideal to finish an act of love - because you have to cuddle.
However, some women do not like the simplicity of this position. What is of interest to them to do something that can make any woman? The name also did not pose unnecessary excites desires - saying that Christian missionaries showed that pose the natives as the only "decent" way to have sex. Most women say that this position is boring or they do not have such a variety of opportunities in other poses.
How to make it better
If the classic missionary position does not excite you, you can "customize" it to fit your needs. One or two pillows under your hips planted, will help you to achieve deeper penetration. Your husband may climb higher or drop, sit back and look at you and whisper in your ear gentle words.
You can straighten your leg to step up the voltage or widely extend them, and if you are in good shape, can encircle the waist feet partner or put your feet up on his shoulders. It can hold your hands behind your head or you can take up the headboard and move toward him (who said that the missionary position is always passive?) He can move in the direction that you can caress each other.
To provide an even deeper penetration, you can pull your knees to your chest and push them so that the man could lie between them. His back would be sandwiched between your calves and you will hold part of its weight. In this position you will be able to move together with the man back and forth.
The advantage of this position is that you do not need to be flexible. In this part, you control the process and to achieve orgasm more easily.
Another way to get the most out of the missionary position - the good old Kegel exercises. Muscle contractions of the vagina can lead you to orgasm. Or you can make an effort to cling to partner labia and clitoris. And if you combine these movements, the pleasure will be even stronger.
Absolutely ideal position
If all this has not convinced you that the missionary position is interesting, try the technique of regulating sexual intercourse. This is a variation of the classical position that allows you to stimulate the G-spot and clitoris and helps to achieve simultaneous orgasm.
You start in a regular missionary position, but a man has to lie to you with all his weight, and not rely on his elbows. Then he moves forward by about 5 cm, so that it was in your crotch. You bow legs around his hips and lifts the hips as he moves back. So you will experience a gentle, but direct stimulation. It is important to a combination of pressure from both sides of rhythm and coordination flowing movements.
This position is not achieved automatically, you need to gradually adjust by finding the best position. When you feel that you are close to orgasm, take your time, let it wash over and do not aspire to it.
Among couples who are specially trained in this technique, the survey was conducted. 77% of women reported that reaches orgasm "always or often", as opposed to 27% among unskilled women. A frequency of orgasms trained simultaneous vapor reached 50% (compared to 4 5%)
But most importantly, what is most important - your feelings. If you feel depressed yourself in the position of the bottom or get less stimulation, easier to give up this position.
As for the "inferiority" of sex often reflects the other areas of your relationship. If you try something new not by choice, but because it wants a husband - you are in a subordinate position, regardless of sexual positions.
Do men to be on top?
A survey was conducted a few experienced men about what they think of the missionary position. Their answers were as follows:
- I love this pose. I like to feel like me pressed against the chest of his wife, I feel our closeness.
- I like it because I like to control what is happening. I know what will happen next.
- My hands hurt from it.
- I like when a woman is on top. I do not like to do everything myself - and I like to look at it.
- In this position, there is nothing interesting or sports, and have to do everything yourself. As if a woman says, "make an impression on me."
- I like to be the bottom, when it is "at the helm".
- From the top, the best feel their strength and masculinity. And always nice when a woman looks at you from the bottom up.