For most women, pregnancy is a welcome and joyous event. Having learned about their situation, they are closely watching the changes of your body, listen to yourself, admired the first movement of the child within you, talk to them, and involve a dialogue with your partner unborn child. However, some women everything is different - all the fault syndrome pregnancy rejection: they not only do not enjoy the pregnancy, but did not know about it until a certain time - or at least do not want to know.
Eight children Dominique Cotterets
In 2010 in France, Dominique sorokasemiletnyaya Cotterets was arrested on suspicion of murdering their newborn children. The woman soon confessed to the murder, which, as it turned out later, she performed from 1989 until 2006. Just this time she killed eight newborn. She acknowledged that she was aware of her pregnancy, but her lawyer insisted that the woman was suffering from rejection of the so-called syndrome of pregnancy. This syndrome has previously been used in court to protect other women to kill their children. The experts who spoke at the side of the defense insisted that the rejection syndrome of pregnancy - a very real and very serious problem, although those who do not understand what it is women who suffer from this syndrome seem to be a monster.
Any changes that occur with the body during pregnancy, these women are some explanations: they assure themselves that the fullness comes from overeating, monthly terminated because of stress
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, and so on. Their partners and close friends may not notice the change for various reasons, such as in the case of Dominique Cotterets - because of the strong completeness.
During the trial, many psychiatrists have argued about whether the syndrome at the French rejection of the pregnancy, but a consensus did not come. Soft case for such a sentence - two years in prison - was connected with the fact that, according to Dominique Cotterets, raped her father, and she put to death the children who were born as a result of incest. Nevertheless, this case once again sparked interest in the rejection syndrome pregnancy, including the question of whether there is a problem at all.
Denying the obvious
From 1998 to 2003, American researchers examined 31,475 cases of pregnancies. They found that the most common rejection syndrome pregnancies occur among women who do not go to the doctor before the birth. A total of 61 cases was discovered syndrome - that is, that the violation occurred approximately once every 500 pregnancies. Complete denial of pregnancy - including cases of women know that pregnancy only begins when birth - there was even less, about one case in 2500. None of these cases ended with infanticide. Similar results were obtained in studies conducted in France and Germany.
Contrary to expectations, the future mother, who suffered from the syndrome of rejection of pregnancy, it was not always teenagers from poor families, pregnant for the first time. Most of these women were significantly older than twenty years old, had a permanent job, and not abused by a spouse or other family members. Scientists came to the conclusion that rejection syndrome pregnancy may be exposed to any woman, regardless of age, education level and social status.
Despite the fact that some experts still do not believe in the existence of rejection syndrome pregnancy, stories about women who go to the hospital with abdominal pain and a few hours later gave birth to a child is no longer a rarity
. Typically, women understand that become pregnant in the first month or two after conception, but for some reason, some of them are not aware of this before the battle begins? Most of us can breathe a sigh of relief: first, rejection syndrome pregnancy is very rare, and secondly, there are no violations that cause asymptomatic pregnant
. The fact is that a woman is pregnant denies its own - it is solely a psychological problem
. Denial - this is a primitive defense mechanism, using which, one simply rejects what scares him or cause discomfort
. Pregnancy can certainly invoke such emotions
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In most cases, pregnancy denies women who did not plan to children. However, when the first signs of pregnancy
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they tend to make the right conclusions and take action appropriate to the situation: go to the doctor, and decide to keep the pregnancy or not. Only a small percentage of women refuses to notice the signs of pregnancy, and spends several months in a more or less happy ignorance.
Different forms of negation
Rejection syndrome pregnancy can manifest itself in several different forms. The term "affective denial" is used in cases where a woman does not feel the connection with the developing fetus inside her, and does not contribute to your lifestyle changes associated with pregnancy. This form of denial is most common in women who take drugs, and / or those who plan to abandon the child after birth.
Psychotic denial seen in women who had prior to pregnancy had any mental disorder
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. Finally, a complete denial - a form of rejection syndrome of pregnancy at which a woman till late timing is not aware that she was pregnant. It is now believed that mental disorders are the most common reason for denial of pregnancy.
Safe to say in advance who will develop the syndrome of rejection pregnancy impossible: he observed like the mentally ill, and at absolutely healthy, wealthy women. It comforted by the fact that in most cases these women do not harm their children, and their pregnancies are more likely to complete a healthy baby.