Many believe part of a holiday romance holiday. Sea, sun, alcohol, reckless flirting
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and a passionate affair, the end date which is known in advance - this is considered to be a standard set of recipe perfect holiday. However, you may want to think in advance about the consequences of the resort's novels, which are not always pleasant?
Holiday romance - not treason?
It is believed that of all the possible ways to change your partner a holiday romance
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- The most harmless. The risk that legitimate half know about this "prank" is minimal. And it is quite unlikely that the holiday lover or beloved once on the verge of any proposal to continue the dialogue. Even if the secret revealed, it's not so scary. Hardly lawful husband or wife will suffer because of this novel: the obvious, that those relationships do not have to continue, and that there was nothing more than just sex for tasty cocktails.
Indeed, most holiday romance manages to keep a secret. However, this does not always happen. No wonder they say that the world is small: the beloved holiday may be a colleague, or even subordinate to her husband and cheerful resort familiar - an old friend of his wife. It is possible that in the next room will rest some nodding acquaintances legitimate half, which, however, did not miss a chance to gossip. As a result, absolute assurance that the novel at the resort will remain secret, to be still can not.
Do not underestimate the resort and explore. Although it is believed that the novel on holiday, by definition, does not impose any obligation on the part of many resort visitors (especially women) are such relationships very seriously. This means that a casual acquaintance could turn from one side into something more. Human ingenuity will find a way to find a lover or beloved - at a time when almost everyone has an account in social networks, it's a snap. And then it can happen, anything. For example, a casual acquaintance of his called his wife and told her the favorite of his existence. Or resort beloved husband was coming to his beloved, to clarify the relationship.
The most unpleasant option - if you give a holiday romance is not only beautiful feeling, but also diseases, sexually transmitted diseases. In the heat of passion, and under the influence of alcohol vapor so easy to forget about security, and save the funds is not all infections. We know about the disease and may be a couple of months after the rest: to explain his need for the second half of the treatment can be difficult.
The ratio of the spouses to the resort's novels their halves also not always loyal. The betrayal - a betrayal, and does it matter in what circumstances it occurred? Yes, perhaps someone better survive treason partner, knowing that everything that happened - an accident. However, the experience will still be, and return the lost trust may not be so easy.
Prevention holiday novels
Is it possible to protect your family from holiday novels? The easiest way - make it a rule always just relax together. Some argue that the spouses have to take breaks periodically to communicate to revive extinct passion. But if the rest separately, then the probability that one of the partners will be an affair, is quite high. It is better not to make such checks its relations and revive extinct passion by some other means.
Unfortunately, the rest together is not always possible. And if a loved one goes to a resort one can only come to terms with what is happening. It is not necessary to suffer from jealousy
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and experience, not worth phoning him three times a day and agonizing wait for his call. Better to just accept the fact that the probability of betrayal there, but that does not mean that the partner is required to take the opportunity to have an affair.
After the return of a loved one to rest better not ask him too much detail, do not look for inconsistencies in his words, is not to figure out the nuances. It is better to refrain from checking the contents of his pockets, a mailbox, a telephone notebook. In this situation, the best of something not know because that knowledge will not bring satisfaction.
Can you forgive?
Having learned that the partner did not waste time in vain on vacation, deceived husband feels a strong offense. The situation is aggravated by the fact that the one who cheated, engaged in solving family problems or work, while his half amused at the resort. In such a situation it would be desirable to immediately take revenge, revenge, punish ... Should we do it?
Divorced because of the holiday novels is quite rare - this excuse is considered serious enough to interrupt relations. At the same time, and for the benefit of family relationships is not a holiday romance. Trust is lost, deceived husband gets jealous spouses lose contact and can not agree.
Of course, over time, the incident can forgive and even forget. Psychologists often advised to refer to the holiday novels with humor, as something not very serious. Indeed, the probability that the affair on vacation turn into something more negligible and, therefore, do not worry about it. Either way, the wrong partner, but returned to his family, and his adventure is not even remember.
Of course, it is quite weak consolation, and yet it is possible to reassure himself that way. But in the future, just in case it is better not to send the partner a vacation: Travel allows you to enjoy holiday romance
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together and take a fresh look at the man who had relations with more than one year.