Unfortunately, with age, symptoms of aggression in children can not only be reduced, but also to grow, taking a variety of forms. This is affected by many factors: growing up, socializing with peers, parents and the behavior of others. Methods of correction at this age may be applied to different, they are selected individually.

Forms of aggression

Verbal aggression

• Indirect manifests itself in the form of:
  • Complaints (And he hit me!);
  • Demonstrative Creek (Leave! Leave me alone!);
  • Aggressive fantasies (I am now so you are finished with that ...).
• Direct - verbal humiliation of another:
  • Teasers (Uncle, get sparrow! Sneak-koryabeda!);
  • Insults (You - a freak! You fool!).

Physical aggression

• Indirect aimed at bringing material damage to another:
  • Destroy the castle in the sandbox, built another child;
  • Breaking someone else's toy;
  • Smeary paint drawing, drawn not by him.
• Direct - this is a direct attack on the other:
  • Symbolic, when the child is bullying another, for example, shows a fist.
  • Real - direct physical assault (biting, grabbing his hair, scratching, hitting with sticks, toys, fight).

On aggression in any case can not be judged by its manifestation, it is necessary to look for the cause of occurrence. The main factors causing aggression are:

• protection
• revenge,
• the desire to get something,
• the desire to attract attention,
• emphasizing their own superiority,
• infringement of the dignity of the other.

If aggression is an end in itself - it is a very alarming sign. Children who are hurt for the pain - risk group for recruiting criminals. This behavior requires psychological counseling.

Sources of aggression

The family in which a child adopts the behaviors of adults and enshrines them in practice. The families of the aggressive child loses a sense of security, and the whole world seems hostile, and therefore it is necessary to provide for its own security.

Peers in the kindergarten, the school, in the courtyard, as the aggressive behavior of others may involve the ability to quickly get what you want. It is proved that the level of aggression of children attending kindergarten, higher than the "home" of children.

Television. For each hour of children's cartoons accounts for approximately twenty-violence. In adult movies scenes of violence less about ten per hour, but they last longer and are more severe. That is, children learn patterns of behavior, including aggression, watching TV.

The risk of developing symptoms of aggression in children above:

• whose parents beat evil joke or mock them undeserved shame,
• parents who themselves lie, drink, arrange fights, undemanding to the child and do not have the authority,
• parents who do not trust the child, are not allowed into the house of his friends, showing petty tutelage and just do not like him.

What will help a child cope with aggression

Parents should always be affectionate, attentive and open to the child and his friends, to be demanding, fair and binding, have the tact and sense of humor.

Replace TV viewing real games with your child, encourage him to invite to the house of peers for games and activities.

The child must attend sports clubs - this is the most effective form of correction of aggressive behavior, and that such children often achieve high results.

Well it removes aggressive water just so you can spend more time with a child in the pool, on the river or the sea, and young children can often bathe in the bath, allowing them there long enough to play, of course, under the supervision of parents.

Sessions with a psychologist to help learn to control their emotions Emotions and culture: how to decipher the emotional code , Remove tension and fear, to return a positive vision of the world.

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Coloring - this is the book, the pages of which are located dashed illustrations that paints the reader. Such illustrations cover many subjects and topics, from the simple to the complex and abstract. Coloring loved by children and adults. "Golden time" for this type of painting became the 1960s.

Story

First paint will be available in 1880, when brothers MakLoflin created a "Book of Drawing." They continued to produce paint until 1920, when when the company merged with the Milton Bradley Company.

In 1907, Richard F. Autkold published a book, "Coloring agent police" about police Brown, whom he invented five years before the release of coloring. After that, the stores began to appear a variety of children's coloring books and drawing.

Appointment

Coloring - this is an interesting pastime for children, but they are used for other purposes. They are used in schools and other educational institutions as learning tools. They include a wellness and therapeutic programs to facilitate understanding of complex procedures. They even used for political purposes. First of all, paint intended for children, but adults are often addicted coloring or just spend doing this free time.

Features

Usually coloring printed on paper or cardboard. Themselves figures represent contour image that you want to color with crayons, paints or colored pencils. In some colorings have perforated pages that can easily tear out of the book. Others depict the story line of the book, and therefore they can not pull out. Some colorings tells the story of the film or, more often, a cartoon or offered some goods. Also, sometimes coloring offer to go through the maze, connect the dots and solve the puzzle.

Kinds

Today there are several types of coloring. Theme coloring pages offer a focus on a specific topic, for example, something to do, an animal or a place. This may be a coloring with motorcycles, which contains different pictures of motorcycles. There are educational coloring. For example, there are those who teach the alphabet and numbers. The entertainment colorings can be images of holidays and various seating areas. Educational coloring contain puzzles and different tasks to be performed during coloring images. Sponsored coloring depict the characters of popular cartoons, movies, as well as certain goods.

What are the benefits of children's coloring

Children's coloring is very useful, especially in training. They are widely used in situations where children do not speak or do not speak the language. In medicine is used for coloring to help recovery of victims of accidents, namely to improve hand-eye coordination. It is also believed that the coloring - this is an interesting activity for children with autism, which helps them to calm down.

Coloring as teaching materials

Drawing as a non-verbal means of widely used in teaching, and in particular target groups, who do not speak or understand the native language teacher or can not perform communication.

For example, the teacher tells the children coloring on the Guatemalan Mayan writing or children of farm workers on how to get the pesticides from the fields to the kitchen person.

Furthermore, coloring also used to motivate students who are not interested in the subject. Since 1969, it has been published a lot of books with coloring on the anatomy and physiology for graduate students where color coding helps to learn the details of the images.

Coloring as therapeutic materials

Coloring widely used as educational tools in medical specialties. For example, this method can take advantage of the nurse, to distract and soothe a crying baby who undergo surgery. So you can explain to your child what is happening and what to expect.

Coloring used during the recovery period for victims of accidents to improve visual motor coordination. In addition, coloring helps soothe and entertain the children with autism. But there should be careful, because some children are very noisy and react upset when properly used color.