- Sexual relations - various options
- As the passion back
Sexual relations are an important part of life for the vast majority of people on the planet. They take various forms, now - more and more diverse, since prohibitions becomes smaller, and often questions about what is permissible and what - no, a person decides alone.
This form of sexual relations someone finds a surrogate sex that masturbation is not much better (and in some - worse), while others are convinced that the modern, bustling people, sex for one night is sometimes a necessity. Anyway, there is nothing illegal (unless, of course, you do not live in some Arab countries) that two adults and unfamiliar person willingly spend the night together. Sociologists point out that in countries where a relatively long time affirmed gender equality, people, on average, a greater number of sexual partners, or are they more likely to engage in "one-off" sexual relations - that is, sex for one night. According to the majority of doctors and psychologists, this type of sexual activity will not harm if the partners are honest with each other and follow the rules of safe sex
Safe Sex - Myth or Reality?
. In general, security - the main rule for one night of sex. With unfamiliar person it is necessary to use a condom - exception should not be here. If a person does not want to have sex in a condom, it is a serious reason to guard and cease to communicate. Also, do not go home to a partner or to invite him to her: for sex one night best suited hotel (also for security reasons).
Do not allow yourself to have sex under the influence of alcohol. If a permanent partner it could be an interesting experience, then with the person with whom you met a few hours ago, it's just dangerous.
Try not to expect to have sex one night is nothing special - it will save you from frustration. In most cases, to sexual relations brought real satisfaction, it is necessary that partners well enough to know each other's needs; Perfect compatibility with a new partner is uncommon.
Do not forget that your partner does not have to, and you do not have it, so even if you have exchanged contacts, wait for the call is not necessary. In contrast to the romantic Hollywood films, in the life of sex for one night almost never has to continue.
The relationship just for sex
Such relationships can be either between the free people (often called "friends with benefits"), and among those who are married (or married may consist of only one partner). The total of such relations is one - and they begin to support solely for the purpose of sex. People can be composed in such a relationship for different reasons - someone does not want commitment, someone does not have enough sex in marriage, someone just committed to diversity.
If sex for one night is enough to make men and women more or less like each other, in a committed relationship for sex between men to be certain attraction
. At the same time it is important that both partners have understood that they have obligations to each other
. It is a mistake to believe that sex in these pairs are always very stormy bright
. In fact, people who have relations exclusively for sex, often tend to keep their feelings, which, of course, has an impact on sex
. Sometimes the partners in such pairs are too selfish, thinking that they should take care only about their own satisfaction
. Generally, a sexual relationship in such couples often turn to the constant attempts to have fun and at the same time avoiding excessive emotional intimacy
. And because really good sex is rarely without such close proximity, it can lead to general discontent relations
. However, if both partners trust each other enough and do not really want from each other anything other than sex (this occurs, although quite rare), their sexual relationship can be very harmonious, long, and thus to nothing binding
Sexual relations in marriage
Sex - a very important component of the marriage; even if the couple a high level of income, wonderful children, a successful career, common interests, without good sex marriage is unlikely to be happy. Exceptions are possible, or if both spouses are indifferent to sex, or if they quietly allow each other to satisfy their sexual needs on the side.
To sex marriage did not become a routine, it is necessary, first of all, from the beginning to talk openly about their preferences. Perhaps you are going to live with her husband many years, and you want during this time you had a good sex. If so, will have to step over his shyness, and share with the beloved their secret desires. Exercise regularly fancy each other, except those that are absolutely contrary to your moral principles.
From time to time look at him through the eyes of another woman. Imagine that you have not lived with him for many years, I have not seen him lying on the couch watching TV is not going to the house of his dirty clothes. It may be that a fresh look at her husband encourage you not just to cuddle up to his shoulder and make him something completely indecent, but very pleasant. Change your image: no need for radical change - enough to put on a new dress for dinner, make-up and hairstyle in the day, and my husband was able to see in you not only a familiar, home-life girlfriend.