Sex and age: the secrets of sexual health and happiness

December 13, 2013

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 A number of studies have confirmed what Freud said for a long time - in a sense, sex is present in a person's life from an early age. Moreover, sex and age, of course, influence each other, but not to the same extent as many people think.


When awakened sexuality?

Some scientists even argue that in utero fetus already regard their genitals - however, he hardly is engaged in sexual stimulation. It is much more likely that he simply studying yourself.

However, in some forms of sexuality it is already apparent in infancy. Even in the first days of life babies do not just feel the heat, but also the proximity of the pleasure of physical contact, when they touch the parents when the mother pressed them to her. Sigmund Freud believed that the first notions of sexuality Nine ways to experience their sexuality  Nine ways to experience their sexuality
   the child begins when the mother is breastfeeding him. Doctors say that the little boys under the age of seven years, sometimes there is an erection Erection - what hinders and what helps a man to be a man  Erection - what hinders and what helps a man to be a man
 Although, of course, it is not nearly as severe as after the onset of puberty Puberty child - stages of a complex path  Puberty child - stages of a complex path
 . But sexuality is rooted not only in the genitals - it is present in almost everything that surrounds man. Because emerging sexuality children often fall in love with the pop stars, actors and teachers. They may not even have an idea about sex as such, but may feel that a grown man would call attraction.


When it begins and when it ends masturbate?

Boys begin to deliberately touch their genitals, on average, when they reach the age of seven. By the beginning of puberty, more than half of boys had tried to masturbate - either alone or while playing with friends (in these games may initially not be a sexual context, and similar games with the same sex does not necessarily talk about the homosexual: it all - stages self-knowledge, which are observed in humans and animals).

Girls usually start masturbating later - only to the end of puberty, and sometimes - in the age of 20 years. By age 16, according to rough data, at least once masturbated 80% of boys and 40% girls.

Experts say that today some of the girls and women believe that if they do not masturbate regularly (during periods when they do not have a sexual partner), it says that with them that something is wrong. It's just a common misconception. In fact, each person is unique, and sexuality in all manifested in different ways.

In general, people are beginning to masturbate less when getting married or when they have an ongoing relationship without marriage. Even more rarely, they do so in adulthood and old age. Nevertheless, it is believed that about 25% of people over 70 years masturbate more or less regularly. Thus, this form of sex accompanies man almost his whole life, even though it still remains one of those rarely discuss even with my closest friends.


When you start a real sex life?

Still, masturbation - it is only a substitute for sex, most teenagers with anxiety, impatience, and often, with fear waiting for its first real sexual experience. According to several studies, to 25 years in the vast majority of people at least once to have sex - heterosexual or homosexual. Only a very small percentage of people keeps her virginity Virginity - big male myth  Virginity - big male myth
   until the end of life.

Age of first sexual activity in the last few decades has declined significantly. This trend is observed in most regions of the world, but we will talk only of Europe. In the early years of the 21st century, young people become sexually active on average in 16-17 years. At present, more and more teenagers lose their virginity before they turn 15 years old. This girls are more likely to have sex at an earlier age than boys. In addition, experts say that children from families where there is no father, are more likely to become sexually active before the age of 16 years.

Unfortunately, many young people still ignore the need for contraception, and sexually transmitted diseases through, as well as unplanned pregnancies among minors remain an important issue.


How does the frequency of sexual intercourse with age?

Teens have sex or masturbate, on average, 3-4 times a week. People aged 20 to 30 years old have sex at least three times a week, and older couples 30-40 years - on average twice a week. After 50 years, the frequency of sexual intercourse reduced to once a week or less.

Talking about his sex life, many people make significant exaggeration - this applies to both ordinary people and celebrities. As a result, many young people, and sometimes even adults feel attractive enough, and almost unused inferior by the fact that they do not have sex every day, and do not change partners at least once a month.

In fact, the average person is not a lot of sexual partners - from 5 to 10 for a lifetime, even though polls suggest that in recent years their number is gradually increasing. Some people have only one or two partners. There is also a small percentage of men and women who are very sexually active - they have, in fact, the number of partners can reach several hundred, but such people are very few and they include those for whom sex - a way to earn a living. As a rule, most often people change their sexual partners between the ages of 20 to 30 years; getting older, most people begin to appreciate the ongoing relationship, regardless of whether they come to marry or not.


When a person becomes too old for sex?

Never. Thanks to modern drugs against erectile dysfunction, as well as the promotion of a healthy lifestyle, it becomes more and more people, who continue to be sexually active and, after 70-80 years. Sex can not end because of age, but because of health, which is almost entirely dependent on the person.

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Female Orgasm: juicy details - Feelings and age

December 13, 2013

  • Female Orgasm: juicy details
  • Sensations and age

 female orgasm sensation and age

Female Orgasm: sensation and age

Achieving orgasm is not so simple - if you are a woman. Nearly all men can easily reach orgasm with any partner, but women are designed differently. However, even the most unfortunate is not it, but the fact that the vast majority of men and women, this fact remains unknown.

Let's face it - all the books, movies and magazines in particular for girls and women paint a very tempting picture, representing women constantly excited sexually attractive creatures, always ready to have sex, and easily achieve orgasm. The problem is that this idea is completely untrue.

Therefore, women do not meet this way - that is, for the majority - such a discrepancy between the media imposed by the notion of the modern woman and the reality can be very painful.

A huge number of young women going through because of their own inability to achieve orgasm. However, the fact that, unlike men, most women need to learn this.

Studies show that most women can achieve orgasm only a few years after the onset of sexual activity.


If you are 20 - 30

Even in the twenty and thirty years, many women can not catch a ghostly blue bird orgasm. Today, most sexologists believe that the inability to achieve orgasm (or problems with achieving orgasm) should prompt a woman to "self-employment".

Well, this is the obvious solution, but many women even today remain rather complexed to openly admit that masturbate and feel guilty for something very shameful. Know that masturbation helps to know exactly what pressure and rhythm you need in order to achieve orgasm. In particular, you need to explore your own body to find out exactly how to stimulate the clitoris.

Yes, masturbation helps you learn more about orgasm, it is important to remember that making love with him should be in a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere, and most importantly, alone. Education of love for one's own body and research her feminine essence should cause only positive and pleasant, but this is impossible, if someone breaks into your bedroom or bathroom, demanding to immediately go out and prepare your dinner!

Learning to easily reach orgasm, you can tell and show your partner exactly what you need to reach the finish line.


If you are over 30

By the time you're 30, 40 or 50 you have to learn how to easily reach orgasm - of course, next to the loving and caring partner.

But do not forget that the majority of women's ability to achieve orgasm depends strongly on the menstrual cycle Menstrual cycle and its characteristics  Menstrual cycle and its characteristics
 . For a woman to feel normal sexual arousal particularly in the middle of the menstrual cycle. However, some women experience the peak of excitement just before the onset of menses. Others note that did not tend to have sex at certain periods of the cycle. And all of this is perfectly normal.

However, if you're over 30, and the orgasms you can be counted on the fingers of one hand, it's time to seek help from a specialist - a doctor-sexologist.


Types of orgasm

Thanks to Freud, the father of the founder of psychoanalysis, Psychoanalysis from it to the superego  Psychoanalysis from it to the superego
 Among men there is an misconception that vaginal orgasms are characteristic of mature women, while the clitoral orgasm is more common among young women.

Now this view is refuted. Many sexologists say today - and ordinary women in solidarity with them - that they do not know the difference between vaginal and clitoral orgasm.

As a rule, women can not reach orgasm without clitoral stimulation, whether it is in the process of sexual intercourse or masturbation.

On the other hand, some women believe they can "finish" without any additional stimulation of the clitoris, and argue that the source of orgasm - Snatch. However, many sexologists believe that in the process of sex in any case, there is stimulation of the clitoris, which is pulled down or pounded male body.

Oh, and do not forget about G-spot. Some women experience especially bright orgasm during stimulation of this point (which you can find without help on the front wall of the vagina). In fact, many women who do not leave their G-spot unattended argue that intense orgasms they are accompanied by ejaculation. Therefore, there is reason to believe that in addition to vaginal and clitoral orgasm, there is a G-spot orgasm.


Attention men: how to help your partner

  • Do not forget that most women need clitoral stimulation. This is part of the female body, which would be transformed into the penis, if women have evolved as men - so clitoris for women is no less important than the penis for men.
  • Always remember that love, romance Romance - trap for women?  Romance - trap for women?
 , Soft and friendly atmosphere very excite a woman, and prepare to have sex as much as your passionate caresses and kisses.
  • Do not hurry.
  • Most breast pat his lady - for some women, this is enough to achieve orgasm.
  • Take it oral pleasure. Most women love oral sex, and some even admit that they can not reach the final without oral sex.
  • Do not hesitate to ask your partner to show that she needs.
  • From time to time leave the initiative for a partner and start a role play.
  • If you lose control and end up at the finish line before your partner, try to find the strength to kiss and caress that will help her reach orgasm too.
  • Never tired of repeating his beloved as she is beautiful, sexy and irresistible.

Orgasm - an indescribable feeling, legitimate reward that awaits at the end of each sexual marathon, but sometimes this prize has unattainable - when you are tense, tired or unhappy with their partner. If your love life overshadowed by doubt, do not hesitate to ask for professional help.

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