Decreased sexual desire after childbirth

Women are advised to abstain from vaginal sex with penetration after birth as long as they do not pass post-natal examination, that is, about six weeks after birth. But many women without the advice of doctors and feel a complete lack of sexual desire for several months after birth. The decline of interest in sex is explained by a set of reasons: fatigue, poor nutrition, anxiety and postpartum depression.

In addition, interest in sex disappearing partly because the top priority for a woman becoming a child for whom she forgets about himself. Many women turn into fanatical mothers, they do not have time for partners and particularly for sex. It is natural and logical, this nature requires. The child must be in the first place, it must be fed, relaxed and happy. The decline of interest in sex also helps to prevent a new pregnancy, the baby did not have to share with my mother and siblings ahead of time. Such is the nature of wise calculation.

But whether this is due to hormones? Many experts have answered this question in the affirmative. In particular, they are credited with postpartum depression hormonal levels and believe that the loss of libido - one of the symptoms of postpartum depression Depression - a little more than a bad mood . However, no one has yet managed to prove this point, and measure the level of hormones in the blood.

Some experts suggest the normalization of hormonal levels of women after childbirth, but such a remedy at the pharmacy can not buy. The best thing to do in this situation is a bit different - ask your doctor to recommend hormonal therapy Hormone therapy - is it possible to fool nature?   tailored to your individual characteristics or go to a specialized private clinic.

However, many doctors, psychiatrists and sexologists believe that depression and loss of desire after childbirth should be treated with antidepressants, for whatever reason.

In general, the level of prenatal sexual desire gradually restored to the extent that, as a woman gets used to his new position, learn to cope with the child and less tired. During this period, men's support and understanding is particularly important.

Decreased sexual desire after abortion

Whether caused by loss of libido after abortion or, simply put, abortion hormonal failure? It is possible, especially in the first days after the procedure. In the end, while you were pregnant, and your body has already launched a mechanism for building a new life, with all the associated process of hormonal changes, and suddenly the pregnancy is terminated. To put it mildly, the body is taken aback. He needs time to readjust it back and return to their usual state. Again, it is interesting to note that most doctors do not discuss such a "trifle" as a loss of sexual desire with their patients.

However, if you desire to have sex does not appear, and a few weeks after the abortion, it is likely that the lack of desire is not due to hormones, but with a sense of guilt and grief for a lost child.

Most women expect that abortion will take place for them without any consequences, believing that all will be well, that abortion - is "a private matter of each woman." In part they are right. For some women, abortion goes virtually unnoticed. But many are facing serious physical and psychological complications - depression, loss of libido, post-abortion syndrome ... In this case, the woman needs help of a professional psychologist or therapist, not hormone pills.

Decreased sexual desire after a miscarriage

Like after abortion after abortion Miscarriage - can you protect yourself from it?   woman loses sexual desire and depressed. She needs to get used to the idea that it will not have the child come to terms with this fact. You need time and support partner. It is possible that hormones also are failing in this period.

Lack of sexual desire after a miscarriage - absolutely normal phenomenon, because the woman is experiencing great loss and grief. Psychologists advise some way to honor the memory of the unborn child - plant a rose bush or make a charitable donation to a children's pool.

The word "sexuality", fortunately, has lost in the perception of many women, the negative-cautious color with which they treated him at the end of the twentieth century. It gradually fell in line with all the other criteria of female attractiveness. But every woman and every man understand his own way. Many believe the fair sex, which is enough to wear revealing clothes and bright make-up - and the trick is done. Meanwhile, the secrets of female sexuality are often not in a flamboyant appearance.

Being "sexy" does not mean others fearlessly demonstrate savory parts of the body. There are men, on which a lasting impression, for example, the kind of elegant and open women's shoes. Other deep down dream of seducing a nun, dressed in cassock and gazing at them gentle angelic look. Others are thrilled by special voices of women. And as though it may sound curious, but very often the most sexy in the eyes of the opposite sex are not busty beauty with views provocatively and legs from the ears, and a modest gray mouse, which they say: "And what did he see in her? ". By and large, they say psychologists and sexologists, women's sexuality - it is something intangible; that it is impossible to estimate the external impression or by touch. It is akin to an electromagnetic wave - it can be felt only as a spark ran.

Love yourself and love men

In most cases, stunning most attractive men call self-confident women, even those whose external data are far from ideal. This woman, the ability to be wanted and loved, beginning with the moment when she begins to believe in its irresistibility. It evaluates himself only "five plus", knows all its undeniable merits, that more than compensate for its shortcomings,

Self-sufficiency and sexually attractive woman will never try to look the way it really is not. Stoop, sullen and inexpressive facial expressions, of course, appeal to have little in common, but mistaken, and those lovely ladies who believe that in the case of seduction they help desperate gestures and unnatural, deliberately copied someone antics.

Self-confident and really quite sexy attractive woman is not afraid to make it clear to the man that she likes him. Already many clever books written about what men really timid initiatives and notorious creatures. On the one hand, they are waiting for you like a woman signs of interest in his own person, and the other - an excessive obsession frightens and repels them. The woman, residing at odds with their sexuality, is not afraid to show sympathy for the man. But she did it gently and delicately feminine: a smile, an approving statement, tilt of the head, affable and radiant look. Despising in the heart of the opposite sex, experiencing in relation to them the most negative emotions Emotions and culture: how to decipher the emotional code It is impossible to be either feminine or sexy.

The external aspect

We mentioned earlier that female sexuality is not always completely identified with the perfect appearance. But grooming as one of its main demands has not been canceled. Healthy and beautifully styled hair, nice complexion, not causing, but thoughtful and neat manicure, discreet make-up, the smell of expensive perfume and quality - these are the main components of success. For a more intimate moments here, you can add a good body cream, refined lingerie, perfect depilation Waxing: the easy way to beauty Because it all makes a certain impression on the men. And correctly chosen underwear helps to hide figure flaws and highlight its advantages.

The habit of regular dental visits and beautician sexuality Nine ways to experience their sexuality   will only benefit. By the same procedure the complex skin care often improves mood and positively affect the general vitality of women. With reference to the makeup of some general advice can not be, but it is necessary to adopt a single chip - red lipstick, so beloved of Marilyn Monroe, Audrey Hepburn, Catherine Zeta-Jones and other legendary seducer.