Be open to dialogue with the child

The child must know that he can apply to parents with any questions. Start sex education for a son or daughter at an early age - it will help you find a common language later, when the child enters the transition period. Use these recommendations to become a close friend for the baby:

• More often repeat, that a child can always turn to you with any questions.
• Repeat the information interests of the child as long as he does not understand or remember it.
• Find out what your child already knows what he asks. You may need to dispel his delusion.
• Let's clear and simple answers, clear to the child.
• Do not hesitate to admit it, if you do not know what to say. Today, you can find books on almost any, even the most sensitive issue that you can explore with your child.
• Do not strain, and do not put ourselves important task. You need to help your child understand that sex - a natural and integral part of everyone's life. If necessary, repeat the "materiel" - parents need to know how the multiplication takes place to clearly explain to the child where babies come from.
• Approach the conversation with humor, maintain a light tone of the conversation.

If the child does not ask direct questions about sex can delicately call him a frank conversation with the help of thematic television program or a newspaper article. Just ask the child's opinion about the material on the delicate subject, and he was willing to discuss it with you.

The most reliable way for a constructive dialogue with their child - a pre-established trust relationship. If you do not initially talked openly with a son or daughter, then later, when they grow up, and there will be those same questions, it will be very difficult to maintain, and even more so, to begin a serious discussion "about it." Remember, you do not need to know everything you need to be ready for a dialogue.

Carefully choose books and materials on sex education

Before you give your child a book on sex education, read it yourself. The book can be more frank and more difficult to grasp than you thought. You need a book:

• written in clear, simple language to the child;
• in which men and women are treated as equal partners and not as in the framework of the stereotypical gender roles.

Individual approach to the choice of babysitter

Different life circumstances are added, but the dynamics of the individual career development in large metropolitan areas today is that no longer allows the mother to a specialist in the allotted term nature painlessly fall out of competition "for the seat." This is where the question arises: to whom to leave your baby?

Of course, you can think of, and the existence of their own parents, and "throw" his grandson, however, modern granny with grandpa are not born yesterday, and therefore not particularly in a hurry to take on the problems of the offspring, and age also has an effect.

And here we are constructively comes up on the decision: "Nanny". It is important to understand that this man depends too much from your baby's health before his mental development. In the period from 0 to 3-5 years of a child is the establishment of the person (the backbone), character formation and accentuation, respectively, that the nurse is more impact on how your child will be in the future.

The civilized approach

Ideally, the structure of the selection nanny should look like: a qualified child psychologist is a psychological portrait of accentuation emerging personality of your kid and his preferences in the framework of building a successful congruent communication; psychologist Recruitment is professiogram considering the data provided and your wishes on the development of the child's specific abilities, gaining knowledge, the formation of value orientations; psychologist recruitment of psychological portraits of the candidates for the position of nanny, assesses them for congruence of communication with the child and compliance professiogram. But labor experts is expensive. Not everyone can afford it. Although philosophical question: save something we are on your child.

On their own

The first thing is to start - is to determine: what qualities you want to develop with your baby; and highlight educational priorities. For example, your child - zinger and restless, and you want him to develop: perseverance, commitment, persistence, and focus on learning to do mathematics. It is important to understand that you are to a certain extent will literally break the psyche of your child, it must become a nanny Bok - iron lady, who is adamant to force your child to sit still, focus their attention on this task. The consequences of such a choice can be a depression Depression - a little more than a bad mood , Isolation and even shattered the mental health of your baby. Bok suit quiet, assiduous child, and active kids - need active nanny. Your "zinger" living in their biological rhythms with excellent mobility of the psyche. This does not mean that the baby is not the way to solve complex mathematical problems - it means that it will decide their descent and fly. Such a child needs Mary Poppins, which will be unable to keep up with it all.

The child "greenhouse" effeminate unprepared for the harsh reality, he is accustomed to a world of domination and self-doubts admirers .  Since childhood, this kid believes in its exclusivity - what does he need a babysitter? - It all depends on whether you are on other things, the life of her baby, of course, "is bad that the mother did not bring the child to the pension," however, it is important to you most to realize that maybe your kid is no worse and no better than others, Naturally, it is unique, but, like all other children .  If you are reading these lines, most of all, you - not an underground millionaire with the insured capital in a Swiss bank, and therefore are required to teach your child independence and adapt it to life .  To do this you need to choose a nanny for their baby that can send "thirst for praise" your child in the right direction, that is to make its subject, a well-deserved and justified .  In other words, the nurse, the baby able to identify talent, uncover him and teach to the promotion of acts .

As you can see, there are different nanny: Nanny - it's just a man, no more and no less. I do not think that a high school education are less able to kid than mature lady teacher education and 20 years of experience working with children. It is difficult to predict what is more important: experience, personality and education. Personal nurse sincere love for children and desire to give them himself.