- Male sexuality - Myths and Facts
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Male sexuality: Interesting statements
The sexual life of men is full of lies and deceit. The truth is that we live in a patriarchal society. With some exaggeration, one can say that the world is ruled by men. However, when it comes to sex, men are losing on all counts. This area of human relations is not subject to them, they can not control it. An incredible and surprising statement, but only at first glance.
In the end, the entire multi-billion dollar industry of sexual entertainment built on the shaky foundation of male sexual fantasies. Popular polls, involving issues of sex, shows that men get in bed much more than they give. Men are usually more likely to receive sexual satisfaction than women. So what are we to explain the problem of male sexuality?
Male sexuality is this terra incognita, completely unexplored phenomenon, which made judging, based on numerous scientific and narrow-minded views and assumptions (often erroneous). The problem is that if the men themselves begin to ask themselves a simple (and difficult) questions about their own sexuality, this situation will never change for the better.
Myths about male sexuality
- Men's sexuality is the norm
Male sexuality for many serves as a measure of sex and one of the means of definition. The problem is that everyone is sure to know what is the measure of sex and no one bothers to take a closer look closely. We need to note that this concept places too jammed, and sometimes - a virgin. In the definition of male sexuality, we must not rely on appearance, height and build, and internal criteria.
Because male sexuality is the norm, it will never be questioned. Therein lies the problem, because male sexuality - such a phenomenon as complex as women's sexuality, and it remains to be sorted out.
- The manifestations of male sexuality more accepted in society
In Western culture, manifestations of male sexuality are welcome much more than women's sexuality. From an early age we are told the difference between men and women set the teeth on edge and repeat the refrain "boys will be boys", which gives young people the opportunity to freely explore their sexuality a secret, but a conventional manner. This "conspiracy" partially removes the obstacles to the development of male sexuality.
However, this phenomenon is related to certain problems, because it is an obstacle to stimulate growth and development. We live in a society dominated by a negative attitude toward sex and all sexual activity, so the lack of barriers does not mean freedom and looseness, and the only choice of the path of least resistance. As a result, men are not able to make informed sexual choices, they are forced to accept that society imposes, and consider it the best choice.
- Male sexuality is obvious, visible at a glance, it is understood a priori
So say when they want to say that male sexuality is his phallus. Perhaps this is one of the most common and persistent misconceptions about male sexuality, besides, the most harmful and dangerous. It is true that the phallus symbolizes male sexuality - no one does not argue with that. Male genitalia are outside, so most men will know his own body (masturbate, experience erection
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and ejaculation) at an early age without any help or interference, so that sexual arousal is given to men easily.
Since men are easily excited, it is assumed that there is nothing in particular, and therefore it is not necessary to know more about this phenomenon. As we know, Freud once said that male sexuality is nothing extraordinary, while the nature of female sexuality remained an unsolved mystery for him. But here Freud was wrong. Male sexuality seems simple, because we treat it as a layman.
- Male sexuality is heterosexual
Another classic myth about male sexuality, "proved" by the fact that men choose women - as we have already determined, subject to the choice imposed by society. Unfortunately, modern sexologists completely ignores the theory of the great Socrates and believe that bisexual women experience - something "natural", and for men - quite the contrary, because "man is by nature heterosexual."
Of course, it is impossible to ignore the existence of homosexuals, but they are "different from the rest" and is only 2 - 10% of the male population of the planet. So when we talk about the culture of male sexuality, we almost always mean a heterosexual male sexuality, which in itself is a rather narrow concept of (here refers to sexual intercourse with vaginal penetration, which is preceded by a minimum foreplay and oral sex).
The problem is that this is not true. In fact, men (explorers and experimenters in nature) tend to try everything in sex, and often it is "everything" is simply impossible to experience with a woman. If you look closely at the sides, you can easily see how an increasing number of men seeking to enrich their sexual experience by communicating with the same sex, the number of gay couples and latent homosexuals, have not yet realized their choice, a variety of male sexuality
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It becomes obvious. The variety of forms of male sexual behavior does not fit into the conventional framework that brings us to the legitimate need to extend this framework.