How to be a bitch? Any girl who had to deal with disrespectful treatment, think about it. Because he wants revenge and pay them back in the same coin, that they regretted that once behaved no better. Yet before breaking themselves and learn the basics of Stervologiya worth thinking about: whether to become a bitch?

Who are stinkers

I wonder what people imagine a bitch in very different ways. Girls believe that bitch - it's a beautiful, very clever, surprisingly successful and confident woman, is able to deftly manipulate others and exploit others for their own purposes. This lady did not stop at nothing and always reaches what she wants. Is not that the dream of a "good girl" who always brought up obedient and altruistic? It was such a good girl, confronted with ingratitude and even meanness, aspire to be a bitch. After all, bitches, in their opinion, are always popular with men: love them, love them, adore them.

Men, however, have their own opinion on the matter. Typically, they are confident that bitch - hysterical, cowardly creatures who consider themselves smarter than everyone else, tirelessly weave, pulled out of his cavaliers with such hard-earned money on the sly and dirty tricks. Needless to say that such a woman does not inspire enthusiasm the stronger sex?

Girls who are planning to become a bitch, you should start to think about what qualities they seem attractive in their ideals. For example, no one will hurt confidence. Very valuable and the ability to refuse. The independence of opinion or a particular person also makes life easier. Knowing yourself, your feelings and desires - the best decoration of life. But from such qualities as revenge and harm, it is possible to give. You should not imagine themselves smarter than others and try to manipulate others - not always manipulators achieve what they want and get satisfaction out of life.

The ability to deny

Earned the title of bitches quite easy - sometimes it is enough to deny someone who asked about the service. Many people are very offended if their request is not executed. And it's good reason to suspect that the request - in fact, not a request, but a veiled claim is not intended refusal. When a person requests it, he is not offended by the refusal, and taking it easy. So do not be afraid to refuse.

Of course, no one says that confident woman (or "real bitch," as some have called these ladies) denies everything, always and everywhere. Just a woman knows what she wants, knows that it is convenient and what is not. And if the request is contrary to its interests, such a woman is always easy to say "No" without feeling remorse.

Many are afraid to refuse, fearing such a way to spoil relations. But controllers are offended by the refusal, the rest perceive it is perfectly normal. Moreover, many nicer to hear a clear "no" than consent, which will be followed endless explanations and excuses.

So what should be denied? In most cases, simply to say 'no', but you can soften the refusal, the petitioner informed of his regret:

• I'm afraid that will not work;
• I'm sorry, but I can not;
• Unfortunately this is not possible;
• I sympathize, but I can not help.

This form of denial sounds quite categorically, but the heart. It is inoffensive, but at the same time does not give the petitioner unnecessary expectations.

Is it easy to be good?

Girls educate obedient. In fact, "be obedient" - it's the same thing as "being good." Of course, parents are very comfortable if their daughters do not have their own opinions and listen to their elders. But, unfortunately, grown up girl is comfortable for others, not for himself. She does everything to meet other people's expectations, she listens to others and try to please them. She hopes for a reward, which is a child for good behavior promised the parents, but these hopes were groundless. People are happy to use convenient and obedient girl, but did not seek to reward her.

And the behavior of a bitch or a confident woman? She clearly imagine what she wants. She knows that her good and comfortable, and that - not very. And it is not going to endure something unpleasant for the sake of illusory hope of reward.

Such an approach can be quite common. Healthy selfishness very decorate life. Women who think of themselves, not to sacrifice themselves for the sake of someone else. She is able to distinguish their problems from others, and never will devote his one and only life decision problems of another person. She trusts himself and his judgment, so it is almost impossible to cheat. We can say that self-confidence - is a necessary condition in order to be happy.

Clever manipulation

Can I manage others, like puppets? Absolutely. Psychology manipulation devoted whole volumes as the professional literature and publications for the general public. But almost never said the most important thing: the manipulation does not necessarily happy manipulator. Women are arranged so strange that they do not want to live with a puppet who will be obedient to the movements of the puppeteer, as a man. With a strong personality.

Of course, without a little feminine wiles Women's Tricks: How effective are they? Allowing to obtain the desired probably can not be avoided. Absolute transparency is not interested in a relationship, both men and women want a little game, a drop of intrigue. And yet, it is thoughtful, and whether to make the basis of the manipulation of relations. If it is impossible to communicate honestly, and always have to pretend to cheat and manipulate - the relationship is unlikely to be comfortable for a long time. It is better to abandon them and look for a suitable partner, or learn to communicate differently, not only by means of manipulation.

  Today releases a lot of literature on the topic changes - including women. How to understand that a woman changes, how to forgive (or why it is not necessary to forgive) as revenge (or why it should not be done) - people are looking for answers to these and other questions concerning this difficult and unpleasant topic. But the resolution of any problem begins with understanding its causes - and we'll talk about the causes of female infidelity.

Emotional dissatisfaction

If a woman can not satisfy their emotional needs in a relationship with her husband or partner, start various problems; betrayal - one of them. One of the most powerful emotional needs is the need to feel the love of another person - and this requires manifestations of love. If a man does not have a woman favors, giving it a minimum of time, it begins to lose self-confidence, a sense of attractiveness and usefulness, he risks will sooner or later find out about his wife's infidelity. As though a man was busy at work, he has to find the time to organize your soulmate romantic surprises and, last but not least, and perhaps more importantly - talk to her and listen to her. Otherwise, the woman will find another person who will be able to give her all.

Sexual dissatisfaction

The passion between people boil, then calms down - this is normal. However, if it disappears, there is a risk that one of the couple begins to look on the bright side of sensations. It is a mistake to think that a hot, intense emotion Emotions and culture: how to decipher the emotional code   men only want sex. Even if the woman is satisfied with other aspects of relations, the lack of diversity and enthusiasm in the bedroom can persuade her to change.

Dissatisfaction with relationships

This includes any problems that do not fall under the first two points. Critical problems in communication between spouses, the fatigue of a long life together, and / or financial problems, boredom, inability to forget old grudges - impossible to list all the factors that can bring a woman to think about change. Maybe they will not direct causes of infidelity, but when presented with the appropriate case, the woman remembers everything, causing frustration and dare to commit adultery.

Revenge

Upon learning of her husband's infidelity, the wife may try to make him feel the same, I felt it. If the desire for revenge - the only thing that make a woman go for treason, this step, they cause more damage to himself than anyone else.

Tendency to changes

Some women are more prone to change their husbands and partners than others. All you need to these women: the presence of a suitable candidate, and assurance that all will be able to hide from her husband. In addition, there are women who truly do not see anything wrong with treason - would be more correct to say that sex with someone other than her husband or steady partner, they do not consider cheating.

The signs of female infidelity:

• It ceased to be interested in where you are, where and with whom are going to go, and when you return. (However, some women start to the contrary, strongly interested in your location, show signs of jealousy Jealousy and what to do with it , and so on).
• She began to pay more attention to their appearance - thin, enrolled at the gym, the procedure goes to a beautician, and so on.
• She carefully selects clothes, doing makeup and hair, when going to work and pays little attention to the way she looks at home.
• Reduced interest in sex with her husband.
• Her schedule was changed frequently, it is delayed for a long time at work.
• She is showing less tolerance for the relatives and friends of the partner.
• If you have problems in relationships Seven of problems in relationships and how to solve them   it shows indifference to them, giving them permission to partner.