Modern man often can not imagine life without the Internet. The network working or looking for work, get information and share their experiences, find friends. And almost half of the users of the web is recognized that they had at least once been a virtual romance. But should start these novels?
What is a virtual romance
Virtual romance - a relationship, which in real life does not exist. Some believe that such novels appeared only when mankind began to use the Internet. But in fact, virtual relationships existed before, just lovers used for communication is not email, and plain.
Sometimes novels called virtual relationships that were fastened on the Internet, and then continued in real life. But this is not entirely correct: This is virtual virtual novel from start to finish, from the time dating to the termination of the relationship.
Once the network two people meet. Word for word the conversation tied, and it appears that they have a lot in common. The Internet is easy to be honest, because the communication is almost always anonymously. Not seeing the interlocutor can tell him their innermost secrets, or, conversely, to pretend to be another person and fun to live someone else's life.
Interesting conversations are taking more time, they become more and more openly. And now, the interlocutors inevitably begin to fantasize about each other. No matter how honest flirting
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Most importantly - a distant and unfamiliar, in essence, a person begins to seem the closest, the most interesting, the most beloved ...
What happens next? One of two people meet in real life or not found. If the meeting has occurred, then we can talk about the end of a virtual novel: the relationship continues in real life, or even end. If we meet, for whatever reason, failed, the novel continues to evolve in a virtual reality.
But the possibilities of virtual relationships are limited. At some point they just stale one of the partners, and then he just disappears, at best, saying goodbye. To the abandoned partner if he belonged to the relationship seriously, this could be a real tragedy.
Advantages of Virtual romance
What good virtual novels? Without a doubt, this is one of the most convenient ways to communicate. It costs nothing: no need to waste time dressing before a date, do not have to shell out for flowers and gifts. Suffice it to pay for internet and some time to sit in front of computer.
Virtual romance - a great tool for increasing self-esteem, for example, after a painful breakup. Speaking on the network, you can hone your ability to flirt and enjoy compliments
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It is necessary to follow some safety rules that will not lose the head of a virtual novel:
- Should not be taken too seriously to what is happening. Virtual relationships - it's just a game;
- Do not get too reassuring your virtual partner, his feelings should be spared;
- It is very unwise to report to his new friend some information about his place of residence, work, pay and where to keep their savings;
- And once again: do not take this affair seriously.
Roman or self-deception?
Novels in the network can be really dangerous. People are immersed in the imaginary relationship and gradually lose their real communication skills. A person becomes a hostage to the computer, real life does not interest him. As a result, when the virtual novel ends, unhappy love life loses its meaning: it can lead to a nervous breakdown.
Why virtual romance does not become real? The reasons can be many. For example, people from the other side of the monitor is not ready for some reason to the relationship. He can just have fun and put on the unsuspecting virtual friends some psychological experiments. He might not be those for whom it is. He can gather material for a book or an article in a magazine. Finally, it can be quite real friends, who decided to make a joke and so wanted to use the network to find out the information for their own purposes.
One should not forget about the scams that under the pretext pull money from their online lovers. Fraudsters are well-established pattern: first they asked a very small amount of the debt, and be sure to return the money on time. This is followed by another request for more than a large sum, and its return to the wait is not necessary: the virtual trickster disappears forever. Sometimes we are talking about small amounts, and the victims of fraud do not even go to the police. But there are cases where the luckless lovers gave a virtual scams everything they had.
Some virtual partners are not interested in money. They may be motivated by a desire to take revenge on all the individuals of the opposite sex or the desire to assert itself. In any case, a virtual partner can cause serious psychological trauma to the victim.
Often people addicted to virtual relationships, unmarried. From banal betrayal of wife or husband such a relationship characterized by the absence of physical contact. But the world has already been many cases where the wife learned about the "innocent" man in the novel network, filed for divorce. Men virtual novels their halves also are highly frowned upon.
Flirting online - is not just a substitute for a real relationship. In some cases, virtual novels lead to very real problems and even tragedies in real life. Therefore, before you enter into this dangerous game, it should be good to reflect, and whether it is in order.