Once we vow of love to the grave, we at least think about the problems in bed. When the wedding bells ringing, we can not even imagine that one day we will think about sex as a boring duty, instead of pleasure. But studies show that marital quality and the number of sexual acts over time, is on the wane.
For example, a study recently conducted by scientists showed that the frequency of sex decreased by 700% in single people aged 20 to 70 years, and those who are married, the statistics even more frightening. Even couples who think their marriage is happy, much less sex than before marriage. According to the results of another study, 6 out of 10 couples have admitted that the marriage has turned sex into a routine.
Another study found that 60% of unmarried men, sexually active, see themselves as sexually satisfied. Among married couples such people only 52%, and 36% have sex at least once a week.
Twenty percent of married couples have sex less than 10 (!) Times a year. When the couple established the scheme of sexual behavior, it is saved forever. For most people, the decline in sexual interest and activity, no matter what it is called - the birth of children, illness, strenuous work schedule - is irreversible. Of course, if both partners a low need for sex, their marital life is going well, but there is a partner who would like to have sex more often, but have entered a phase where it is simply impossible.
Fifty-two percent of men over age 40 have difficulty getting an erection
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A man must do sports, eat properly, do not abuse alcohol or drugs, do not smoke or take drugs that affect the function of sexual organs. Middle-aged men often overstrained at work and are subject to chronic stress
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, Which also contributes libido. In addition, at this age, they often experience the first symptoms of diseases such as diabetes, which is also reflected in their need for sex. Finally, many men do not realize that with age, their sexual behavior change, and they need an erection direct physical stimulation, it was not there before.
More than 60% of divorces in European countries initiated in women of menopausal age, experiencing a decline of sexual desire. Menopause - hormonal changes a woman's body, puberty contrary to which, in addition to the characteristic physical charms, like the tide, added discord in the family. A woman's body changes inside and out, I do not really like their husbands. The main problem of middle-aged women that they lead an unhealthy lifestyle, sedentary sedentary work, poor diet, smoking and other bad habits - all this has a negative impact on their libido and ability to experience arousal.
Loss of appeal
Forty-three percent of couples admit that they no longer find her attractive second half. Marriage and having regular sexual partner makes many relax and stop to look after themselves. As a consequence - obesity and other unsightly side effects of an unhealthy lifestyle. A great deal - and not just sex - in a relationship depends on how you take care of yourself and your health.
The difference between sexual preference
Men think about sex about five times more often than women (45% and 8%, respectively). The main cause of sexual dissatisfaction, erotic incompatibility, sexual preferences when one partner does not coincide with the preferences of others. This discrepancy may involve sexual technique, while having sex, posture, regularity, and many other factors. The difference between desires can lead to tension, irritation, quarrels and scandals, disappointments. Sex differences in sexuality
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Sixteen percent of the people who are married, at least once changed his partner; Infidelity destroys trust, and trust - the basis of proximity. Sometimes, however, extramarital affairs can strengthen a marriage. In an open marriage where partners can, openly and without guilt, not only have sex with each other, marital sex more intense. Sex with a new partner to diversify the intimate life, liberating and opens up new possibilities. If the partners are not jealous and do not make their sexual life on the side in the competition, the spouse becomes their best friend, and increases its attractiveness. Few disagree with this point of view, because adultery - a kind of manifestation of laziness when you do not want to make an effort to save the marriage, look for satisfaction elsewhere.
Birth of a child
Thirty percent of women admit that in the first year after birth did not get pleasure from sex. Some women suffer from postpartum hormonal imbalance. But definitely subject to strong stress. Some couples understand the impact on their sex life birth of a child - they will have to completely change the schedule, lifestyle, behavior, which is also reflected on the state of young fathers.
According to the study, a woman's ability to enjoy sex is reduced by as much as 39% in the third trimester of pregnancy. Pregnancy is a quick change of roles in a relationship, women dissatisfaction with their appearance - and changes in appearance do not always cause excitement in her partner - and hormonal changes in women, affecting her sexuality. For many young couples pregnancy is the first serious test of the strength of the relationship, which is not all pass.
Almost 60% of women describe their marriage as "boring" (as opposed to "interesting"). The interest and intrigue in relationships are saved when the partners retain individuality. Try not to mimic a partner. Assert your individuality, your tastes, including sex. Where else realize their wildest erotic fantasies, but on the marital bed? Boredom is sometimes difficult to differentiate from depression. According to one study, 61% of people suffering from depression, complained about the lack of sexual desire (compared with 27% with a similar problem among those who do not suffer from depression).
Eighty per cent of couples blame the absence of a full sexual life of a busy work schedule - or your partner. Can you imagine a day when you are too tired to have sex? If sex for you is no longer a priority in life, you have to wonder why. The life of man is centered around the career and financial success, he thinks about how much he needs to work to buy your favorite car. After spending the whole day on the important negotiations, he does not want to think about how to please a woman. He wants to smoke a bong and drink martinis. Shestidesyatichasovaya workweek completely kills the libido.