Causes of male adultery: can argue with nature?

December 26, 2013

 causes of male adultery
 What do you know about male infidelity, except that it's dirty, disgusting, and very painful - for a woman? Do you know why they do it, what are the reasons of male adultery? Most of the materials on this subject are based on a woman's opinion about male infidelity. Polls men who change their wives, provide interesting and sometimes - very unexpected results.

  • 48% of men referred to as the main reason for their dissatisfaction with the emotional changes

Most women believe that the main reason to change - it's sex: it is not enough houses, and men begin to search for sex on the side. However, only 8% of men said that the change of sexual dissatisfaction. Psychologists say - we just used to think that sex for men is one of the first in a series of values ​​in life. In fact emotions Emotions and culture: how to decipher the emotional code  Emotions and culture: how to decipher the emotional code
   for them, however, and sometimes more important than carnal pleasures. They want to feel that their wives appreciate, understand, love. And they want the wife to know that it is not always possible to show these feelings so that the man they knew and responded. The problem is that men are not always able to explain exactly what they lack in family life - they can long hide his displeasure, because they believe that to complain - this is not a man. When dissatisfaction becomes too strong, they may decide to change - just to feel needed, important, desirable.

  • In 77% of changing men have a good friend who is also changed

This is not to say that the man changes to keep up with the other to be better than others. But when he talks to a man who cheated on his wife, rooted in his subconscious thought: "My friend - a good man. After he cheated on his wife, he was a good man. Probably, even the best of us sometimes change. ". If some friends of your husband is a man who changes his wife, it does not necessarily mean that your husband also dare to commit adultery, but the probability of this is increased. However, the attempt to deny her husband communicate with each other should not be. Just from time to time communicate with the happily married couples, to the sight of a spouse were other examples.

  • 40% of men have changed their wives with the woman he met at work

Moreover, these women are often admired by men, they praised their work, and requested the Council to constantly made compliments for expert help. This attitude is particularly captivating men who at home is not enough admiration and recognition. Therefore, it is recommended wives often praise their husbands, and carefully listen to them, When a man speaks of female colleagues more and more enthusiastic than that of any male colleagues, it is an occasion guard.

  • Only 12% of men admit that their lover is physically attractive than his wife

In other words, men do not always change because of the desire for a more beautiful, slim body than his wife. This does not mean that wives can relax and stop watch yourself - just need to understand that often a man changes, to obtain the missing emotions and other aspects are not so important.

  • Treason for revenge

Although the majority of men believe that they can not forgive the betrayal of his wife, among them many who loves his wife so much that he could not go, but still wants revenge. In such cases, an instrument of revenge could be cheating. Sometimes, men change due to resentment about something else - in any case, the likelihood of change, when a person is unbalanced, above average. The probability of becoming even more if he had previously thought about the change, and he already has in mind a woman who could become his mistress - then it is possible that any disagreement can be the final straw that will help men decide and disrupt the internal ban.

  • He wants to make sure that "there is life in the old dog"

Many men start flirting Flirting: Ten amazing facts  Flirting: Ten amazing facts
   with a beautiful stranger just for this - they need to feel that they can still seduce, create the desire and the gleam in the eyes of women. Whether it comes to adultery, it depends on many factors, but the need to prove himself his own worth, enticing the opposite sex, there remains a man for a long time, and if he does not dare to commit adultery today, who knows what will happen tomorrow. Comprehensive support from his wife only partially solve the problem - the man you want to receive confirmation of their own attractiveness and value from, although for many it is enough recognition of colleagues and business partners.

  • You can not refuse

Few men in the world, which is constantly hovering around the beauties that make explicit hints. However, most men do not just been in a situation where an attractive woman was frankly not opposed to a more intimate communion. In such cases, not every man have enough willpower to wish the woman goodnight and go home.

  • Love is gone

Sometimes the cause of infidelity becomes just that - the lack of feelings and, as a consequence, sexual attraction to his wife. Some men are hoping that after the betrayal (or more varied) sense return - oddly enough, a very common misconception. In addition, men are trying to get that spark feelings, which disappeared from the relationship with his wife, from his new relationship. Usually, it is impossible to neither one nor the other, and helps to prevent cheating is not inevitable.

  • And finally, 66% of men have changed regret treason

Not all men who change - heartless creature. On the contrary, most of them repent of treason, and would like to have enough willpower to resist the temptation.

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Viagra - male power

December 25th, 2013

 Viagra, or sildenafil - is one of the most popular drugs for the treatment of erectile dysfunction. Initially, Viagra was developed specifically for men suffering from hypertension and angina, however, in clinical trials it has not shown good results as a cure for heart disease. But it turned out that a new drug stimulates the blood flow to the genital area, so men suffering from erectile dysfunction, erection temporarily restored Erection - what hinders and what helps a man to be a man  Erection - what hinders and what helps a man to be a man

Viagra causes relaxation Relaxation and stress - calm, not panic!  Relaxation and stress - calm, not panic!
   smooth muscle, whereby blood flows into the penis, and to some extent the enhanced excitation. Once this was discovered "side effect" of the drug was conducted more than two dozen studies that have participated in a total of more than 3,700 people aged 19 to 87 years. All participants in clinical trials suffer from more or less severe erectile dysfunction caused by factors such as diabetes, spinal cord injury, prostate surgery. The research also involved people who identify the cause of impotence Impotence - a female perspective on the problem  Impotence - a female perspective on the problem
   failed. The new drug was patented in 1996, and only six months later received an official permit for use in the treatment of erectile dysfunction.


How to take viagra

Viagra should be taken before sexual intercourse. It is best to do it in an hour, but it can be done in a period of half an hour to four hours before sexual intercourse. Viagra should not take more than once a day. If you have a chronic illness, or you are taking medications, your physician will advise you to take this medication more often. You can take Viagra on an empty stomach or with a meal, but if you take it with a meal containing a large amount of fat, you will need more time to the drug began to act. Talk to your doctor if Viagra does not help, or causes severe side effects.


Safety measures

Before you start taking Viagra, tell your doctor if you are allergic to sindenafil or any other drugs.

Viagra should not be taken if you have recently taken medicines that contain nitrates, such as isosorbide dinitrate, isosorbide mononitrate, or nitroglycerin. Talk to your doctor if you are not sure whether the nitrates contained in the medications you are currently taking.

At the same time it should not be taken with Viagra so-called "poppers" - substances that are widely used today for that to strengthen and extend the orgasm. The most common way used amyl nitrite, butyl nitrite and isobutyl nitrile.

Before taking Viagra, tell your doctor about any medications you are currently taking, or planning to start taking in the near future.

Potentially dangerous is the use of Viagra at the same time with the following medications: alpha blockers such as alfuzosin, doxazosin, prazosin, tamsulosin, and terazosin; Amlodipine; certain antifungal medicines such as itraconazole and ketoconazole (Nizoral); anticoagulants such as warfarin; barbiturates, such as secobarbital; Beta-blockers - atenolol, labetalol, metoprolol, nadolol, and propranolol; bosentan, cimetidine, efavirenz, erythromycin, protease inhibitors, including amprenavir, atazanavir, darunavir, fosamprenavir. In some cases, the doses of these drugs Viagra or for the safety of the patient is necessary to substantially correct.

Tell your doctor about any herbal medicines you are taking (especially important to talk with your doctor to those who accept St. John's wort).

Tell your doctor if you smoke, you have ever had an erection that lasted several hours, and, if you have recently lost a large amount of liquid. The latter could happen, for example, due to the intense heat, diarrhea, vomiting, sweating, and also due to the fact that you drank enough liquid.

Tell your doctor if you have ever had the following violations:

  • Venookklyuzionnaya pulmonary disease;
  • Stomach ulcer;
  • Heart disease, kidney or liver disease;
  • Heart attack;
  • Irregular heartbeat;
  • Stroke;
  • Chest pain;
  • High or low blood pressure;
  • Elevated cholesterol levels;
  • A bleeding disorder;
  • Problems with blood circulation;
  • Blood disorders such as sickle cell anemia, multiple myeloma, or leukemia;
  • Diseases affecting the shape of the penis (for example, Peyronie's disease);
  • Diabetes.

If you have an operation, including - dental, be sure to tell your doctor who will operate on you that you are taking Viagra.


Side effects

The most common side effects of Viagra are:

  • Headache;
  • Heartburn;
  • Diarrhea;
  • Hot flashes;
  • Nose bleed;
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  • Numbness, burning or tingling in the hands, legs or feet;
  • Muscle aches;
  • Changes in color vision (patients begin to see blue tint in various objects or can not distinguish blue from green);
  • Increased sensitivity to light.

If any of these side-effects are very pronounced and do not disappear for a long time, talk about a physician.

Seek medical attention immediately if after taking Viagra you experience any of these symptoms:

  • Sudden loss of vision;
  • Blurred vision - usually blurred visible objects;
  • Sharp deterioration or loss of hearing;
  • Ringing in the ears;
  • Dizziness or lightheadedness;
  • Fainting;
  • Chest pain;
  • Severe shortness of breath;
  • An erection is painful or persists for more than four hours;
  • Itching or burning during urination;
  • Skin rash.

Cases when patients taking Viagra, cases of heart attacks, strokes, blood pressure rises, you begin to pulmonary or cerebral bleeding. In some cases this has led to death. Most, but not all, of these patients had serious heart problems before they start to take Viagra. It is not known whether there were serious complications caused by Viagra, sexual activity and heart disease or a combination of these or any other reasons.

Loss of vision in patients taking Viagra, is rare, but sometimes it is a constant; reasons for this are not yet known.

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