Parenting style and temperament of the child: how to find a compromise - Different reaction of children
May 25, 2012
- Parenting style and temperament of the child: how to find a compromise
- Different reactions of children
Temperaments children - different reaction
Education does not happen in a vacuum; is a complex interactive process. Each child also has its own "style" or temperament, which interacts with parenting style used by his parents. Children are born with a predisposition to certain behavior and reactions to people and events. This preferred method of response is called temperament. Children in the same family often different temperaments, parents with many children and in most cases recognize those differences and different educate every child. For example, parents in many ways will be treated with the active and impulsive child and shy and timid child. Rather, they will endeavor to suppress impulsive behavior in active child and encourage activity in a shy child.
The differences are obvious already temperaments of children in infancy. The researchers identified three basic temperament, namely:
- Easy: the children are calm, happy, easily adaptable, they have set the time sleeping and eating habits, they are optimistic and eager for new impressions.
- Difficult: restless children, they have a steady bedtime
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and eating habits, they do not adapt, they are afraid of new people and situations, easily upset, easily excitable and react violently.
- Susceptible: children are relatively inactive, thoughtful, they prefer to watch rather than act, react negatively to new things, but eventually get used to it and change its attitude.
It is the interaction or "match" between parent and child is the most important. Compliance or non-compliance of the child temperament and parenting style of parents determines the harmony between them. But temperament - not constant, it changes under the influence of circumstances, environment and life experience. Parents, take into account the temperament of your child can recognize his strengths, make family life more harmonious. For example, a susceptible child needs time to get used to the new situation, and parents need to be patient and give him more time to assess the circumstances. Obviously, all parents and children - a unique personality, and defy classification. Most parents exhibit the characteristics of several styles, but with the passage of time is determined by one predominant style.
A few tips to parents
- Think about how your own temperament is combined with the temperament of your child.
- Listen to your child's mood, give him the opportunity to perform tasks at its own pace.
- Articulate your expectations. Restrictions will help your child develop self-control.
- Involve children in joint problem solving.
- Let the child know that it is always ready for dialogue. Be open to discussion; Always explain your decisions and motives of actions, hear the views of the child.
- Respect the strengths and advantages of your child, and do not compare it with the other children.
Water aerobics for children - the most attractive form of physical exercise - the youngest age group
November 28, 2012
- Water aerobics for children - the most attractive form of physical exercise
- Younger age groups
Water aerobics for children of younger age groups
Once upon a time it was very popular to give children in the swimming section - it has been considered until now a very useful kind of sport, promoting all-round development. Today, however, children who were born in the era of a wide variety of entertainment quickly become bored, doing monotonous exercises and training in swimming is hardly very entertaining. To maintain the children's interest in exercise, they need at least every 15-20 minutes to offer new exercises. This is precisely one of the reasons that today goes to water aerobics more children.
Traditionally, water aerobics was considered the most suitable type of physical activity for older people, but now are developing intensive programs Bole water aerobics classes
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Suitable for children and adolescents. Everywhere there are groups aqua aerobics
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for children. Instructors of these groups tend to hold classes in the form of games, to keep children motivated again and again to come to the training. Indeed, various exercise
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in the water were not intended primarily for the elderly.
After the Second World War in some countries for young veterans who received combat wounds, conducted exercises in the pool, very similar to modern water aerobics. This is one of the reasons why water aerobics for quite a long time seen as a kind of mild or moderate loads. It also contributed to the baby boomers, which the press called the most athletic generation. The time when this generation is aging and beginning to deal with these common problems among the elderly, as joint pain
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, Limitation of movement, and so on, has coincided with the promotion of aqua and baby boomers, who in every age have been willing to experiment, began to actively attend these classes. And no wonder - water aerobics really helped many of them to lead an active lifestyle, regardless of age. However, because of this many supporters of aqua aerobics is still struggling with the stereotype that it is intended only for people over 60 years old.
In recent years, debunking the myth is all the more successful. Modern sports centers, swimming pools are good, experienced instructors and thoughtful exercise program involve children (and of course their parents).
Child to engage in water aerobics, it does not necessarily have to know how to swim, since training is usually held at a shallow depth. Water aerobics can help overcome fear of water and may be the first step in learning to swim.
Today, all the more urgent water aerobics for children suffering from obesity - unfortunately, this problem is now widespread even among younger students. If the child is due to the large amount of weight is difficult to carry out exercises on the ground, he must be able to successfully train in the water. Training should be led by a trained instructor, who knows exactly how to work with children, obese patients. Classes in the ad hoc group have another advantage: the children psychologically easier to train with their peers who have excess weight.
Water aerobics will benefit the children who are engaged in other sports - it will become tougher, strengthen muscles, make the body more flexible.