The majority of those who claim that comfortable with the treachery, cunning: Infidelity favorite - it is always painful. Deceived wife feels betrayed, feels inadequate and painfully ponders how to avenge the betrayal to her boyfriend felt the same pain, but she was. Similar feelings experienced and deceived spouse.
The first thing to do - to calm down. Temper a lot, you can make some foolish acts for which, at best, then it will be a shame. At worst, the hapless avenger face criminal punishment. So hurry in any case not worth it: to begin to think everything through.
It is interesting that men seldom think about how to take revenge on the treacherous lover. They either forgive or (which happens more often) completely sever relations. There are those who for years reproaches unfaithful spouse, but to the place as such is not usually the case comes. Women are more bloodthirsty: they dream of severe punishment for wrong.
Ideally, the better, of course, opt out from idea to take revenge. Just get up and leave in silence, leaving the apostate bite your elbows. It would seem that this is the easiest way to solve a problem. However, not every woman is ready so instantly react and break off relations. Much more attractive it seems a good idea to first torture traitor to punish him, to continue to teach it to change, and then forgive.
History is silent on how effective such educational measures. Perhaps some men really poosteregutsya later change his beloved, so as not to lose it forever. But others will not reflect on cause-effect relationships, but simply feel that they are properly changed such harmful and foolish person.
However, even if adultery does not help influence the behavior will change, it will be useful at least that will give an opportunity to "let off steam" and calm down. It is interesting that, according to psychologists, to achieve this effect is not even required to take revenge - just to dream of revenge. If you want to be sure to act, you should all be carefully considered.
Method one: to change in response to
"An eye for an eye" - the oldest female way of revenge, although men can take revenge in this way. But to call the betrayal of revenge good idea difficult. Typically, such betrayal does not bring any pleasure avenger. On the contrary, there is a feeling of disgust. It turns out unfairly: she did not punish the traitor, and herself. If the link on the side would be nice, there is a risk to fall in love in a hurry to choose a partner and as a result buy many new problems. Men, too, are rarely satisfied with this method of revenge.
Invalid partner can not recognize his guilt and be offended and leave, knowing that he, too, have changed. Of course, it can not change its reporting, but then the moral satisfaction of revenge will be far less. In addition, there is always the possibility that secret revealed.
Method two: Petty Tricks
People can be very creative in their quest to spoil the life of the beloved man recently. Among the most popular of dirty tricks are:
- Pour in coffee laxative;
- Lost TV remote;
- "Random" damage a laptop or expensive gadget;
- Pour sugar into the gas tank of the machine;
- Use a toothbrush
Toothbrushes - make no mistake in choosing
unfaithful husband to clean cat litter;
- Using expensive creams wife for cleaning footwear;
- Ads with contacts offender on a dating site for people with different sexual orientation;
- Raw egg introduced via syringe under an upholstery seat with his or her car;
- Little shrimp, accidentally forgotten somewhere on the cornices, and much, much more.
Most often, so "fun" ladies. All of these actions allow somehow occupy and distract himself from the pain. A significant drawback of minor mischief that this method does not bring the satisfaction of revenge for a long time. Is it possible to compare the pain of betrayal and anger due to a missing remote control from the TV? It's just a lack of respect their feelings.
Note that minor mischief did not help to improve relations. A rare man will suffer for a long time such behavior girlfriend or wife. Start scandals, and a reproach, "You cheated on me! "Deceiver will always be able to provide a list of their grievances.
Method three: pretend to be happy (happy)
Changed? Eka wonder! And cheated partner is not in a hurry to tear his hair and tears to irrigate shoes apostate: he quietly going about their business, something absent-mindedly humming. From it emanates such peace and a serenity that necessarily reflects a liar: but does it for her anything?
This method of revenge, too has its drawbacks. Change a woman certainly reveal fraud. I love a man can simply not notice a happy kind of wife. He can be delighted that his actions go unpunished and continue in the same spirit in the future. Finally, it can be offended and go to his mistress forever.
In addition, for such pretense is truly needed nerves of steel and good acting skills. Otherwise, the whole game will look helpless and sorry - the mountain in the eyes of the deceived partner will desperately discordant with his happy way.
Method four: to do with their lives
Of course, this method is the most reliable and efficient. First, do not have to grovel, plotting traitor: life itself will punish him, and eventually he will realize that he lost his happiness. Second, this approach is more constructive: it deceived partner actions are intended to create, to build their lives, rather than something to destroy the life of the beloved.
And let revenge may have to wait a few years - the dream of the moment when the apostate realizes his mistake, will help sustain any tests. And it is likely that over time do not have to put absolutely no effort to demonstrate their indifference to the man who once struck offense: it will be completely indifferent sincere. For such a result is to work on building their own happy life.