Blind Date: entertainment or search for fate?
November 6, 2013
- Blind Date: entertainment or search for fate?
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How to find your destiny, or at least meet the person with whom you can go through a vivid and memorable novel? This issue is of concern to many people, regardless of gender. However, on a blind date resolved not all - a way to explore many consider risky and unpromising. But is it really?
Blind date called a meeting of two people who had never met, and often have not even seen each other's photos. Such meetings are often satisfied with mutual friends, who think that the result of such visits will turn a lovely couple. Sometimes a meeting organized by relatives. Intermediaries can become and dating agencies. So often these agencies are parties where a large number of people are familiar blindly. But most people manage without middlemen, getting acquainted on the Internet - on dating sites, thematic chat rooms, on blogs and forums.
The objectives of such appointments may be different - someone is trying to find the love of your life, someone only interested in sexual intercourse, and most couples do not thinks of forward and just wants to get to know each other better. It is often only when personal acquaintance can understand whether to continue communion.
People have different attitudes to the blind date. Someone believes that such meetings - the lot of desperate to find a partner. For others, blind dates - the perfect way to find a life partner, if not, then at least a good friend or a friend of. Still others refer to like dating as a way to spend great time and significantly expand the circle of friends.
According to psychologists, it is best to treat such dating it as entertainment or a fun game, not expecting too much from the meeting. In essence, such a meeting - a kind of lottery: some luck, but someone should try again. Such an attitude will avoid disappointment and feel in the communication process naturally. In themselves blind date there is nothing to be ashamed of: this is just a way to get acquainted with a new man, so shy of absolutely nothing. At the same time it is not necessary to forget and about the specific security measures.
If a blind date properly prepared, then do not worry it will not happen. Generally, the safest thing to a blind date on special parties, which take place in public places. If the meeting organized by friends, in most cases, too, there is nothing to fear. Greater attention should be dating one on one with a complete stranger. The main thing - remember a few rules:
- It is not necessary to appoint a meeting with strangers in dark alleys, forests, and other deserted places;
- It is not necessary to go on a visit to a stranger or to invite him to his home;
- Be sure to inform the trustee about the time and place of the alleged meeting, it is advisable to leave someone, and coordinates of the person with whom a meeting will be held. In some cases, it does not hurt, if someone of your friends is in the vicinity of the venue;
- It is advisable to agree with someone of your friends to check calls. If the date is too boring, this call will be a great excuse to get away;
- Dress before a date to be neutral. Short skirts and cleavage are best left to the next meeting, if held. One should not abuse the expensive jewelry. Let the dress will be attractive, but not too sexy;
- If the meeting is being held at a restaurant or cafe, you should have enough money to pay in case anything for himself;
- It is not necessary to tune in to any particular scenario. The beauty of a blind date is in its spontaneity and unpredictability.
Why not go to such a meeting
Blind dates can be awful, even if consider everything in advance and to protect themselves from an explicit crime. For example, the partner can come to a meeting drunk or behave provocatively. It may be that he has given someone else's picture, and in fact it looks very, very different. Moreover, you may find that all of the information that this person is currently reported before - lie.
Rendezvous can be incredibly boring. If a partner is too shy, you have to look painful topics of conversation, which is very unpleasant. No better, if the partner is overly talkative - have to listen to his outpouring, without being able to put in a word.
Some men believe that on blind dates go girl, desperate to find a partner, and behave accordingly. Others are only interested in sex, and other forms of communication, they carefully avoid.
Why should you go on a blind date
Even in large metropolitan areas people often feel lonely and can not find a mate. Surprisingly, a large number of people around does not help expand the range of communication: close contacts are tied to labor. Moreover, many simply do not have time to get acquainted with someone, to know new people.
In this situation, the meeting blind - a real salvation. This is a wonderful way to learn new and interesting people. Of course, no one can guarantee that all meetings will be pleasant and helpful, but the more such meetings, the more likely to find new buddies, friends and loved ones.
And some people do so is the love of his life. Of course, this is not the case with everyone, because true love - a rarity. Still, nice to know that blind dates can lead to such a result. And yet love is not met, it is possible to go on like goodbye again and again, having fun, getting to know new people and enjoy the communication.
How to please a woman: the secrets of male attractiveness
November 7, 2013
Women's psychology seems to many representatives of the stronger sex mystery. How to please a woman? What would appear to be attractive to girls, and which - repel? Are there any ways to achieve universal female sympathy? These questions concern of many men from fourteen years of age or older.
Many young people spend long hours in the gym to make your body perfect, so - appealing to girls. Of course, tightened figure are attractive almost all women. However, in the pursuit of physical perfection do not forget about hygiene. Ironically, many modern men do not use deodorants, and take a shower only occasionally. But even the most perfect body does not seem attractive if it exudes an unpleasant odor.
For most women, it is crucial to cleanliness. Let the clothes will not be from the latest collections of famous designers, but clean and ironed. Let haircut does not venerable stylist, but the hair will be clean and shiny without dandruff
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. Let the shoes are not the most expensive of the store, but clean and well appointed.
In pursuit of physical perfection do not forget about the soul. If women do not choose a partner for one night, and the man for a serious relationship, then the character traits for them is more important than physical attractiveness.
To please a woman, you must have certain personality traits, and be able to demonstrate these features in time. Most of the girls asked, what qualities should have a man, mention "male character". It is a set of qualities that the true value of women in the true men:
- In the first place there is confidence. The man who is constantly afraid of him thinks, hesitates to buy a bouquet of flowers or frightened waiters can hardly count on the love of women. Although, of course, there is a chance that such a timid young man "would take under the heel" overbearing and opinionated lady;
- Ability to take responsibility - another man's quality, which is very much appreciated by women. Responsible man admits his mistakes and corrects them, and does not waste energy on the search for the guilty and the prosecution. Responsible man fulfills his promises. Responsible man does not lie, and do not remove, he speaks the truth, and his words are not with deeds;
- Next quality - reliability. For such a man can feel like a stone wall - is not that the dream of most women? It will provide a favorite, as well as future children everything necessary to him, you can not be afraid of anything. In addition, from a reliable man waiting loyalty;
- Sense of humor. It is believed that a sense of humor is at all, just not all of it is the same. In order to have harmonious relations, it is necessary that partners found funny the same jokes, or in the future for mutual understanding can not count. If a sense of humor does not match, it is better to look for a different pair;
- Decisiveness. A woman can afford to doubt and hours to choose, say, dress for the evening. Men are also prescribed to be decisive. The response should be fast, and the decisions made - solid;
- Courage. A man must be brave. He has a right to be afraid, like any living being, but must be able to overcome the fear. However, the courage not to be reckless: the majority of women do not approve of extreme hobbies and other fun that threaten over time to leave the family without a breadwinner;
- Indulgence. For many years, women are fighting hard for their independence. And still continue to wait on men indulgence. Most of the girls are convinced that they should be allowed more than men - a gender.
Not only male qualities
As it has often been noted by women - creating a very inconsistent. After all, only the inconsistency can be explained by the fact that of the elect have to be a real man
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and at the same time enjoy the many feminine qualities perfectly.
Is it possible to be both masculine and feminine? Most of the girls is sure that, yes, it is. Therefore, having aimed to please a woman, she should demonstrate qualities such as:
- Tenderness. Girls adore affectionate phrases and never get tired of listening to compliments
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. They are pleasant hugs and kisses, which are not a prelude to sex, but just an expression of love;
- Sensitivity. It is believed that men do not know how to talk about feelings. Those who have mastered this difficult science, are highly valued fine ladies;
- Romantic. Representatives of the stronger sex often seem more like a silly venture donated a million red roses (a new refrigerator or a car - much more practical) or sharing a bath by candlelight. However, most of the girls are very fond of "nice gesture" and sincerely believed their index love.
Few of the material
Among men widely believed that modern women are very mercantile: they need only money. Of course, this is not true. The thickness of the purse is crucial for girls potrebitelnits who deliberately seek "sponsors". The remaining reasonably argue that relationships are not built with the material possibilities of man, and with the man himself.
And yet we can not say that money does not matter. The majority of women are pragmatic, they are looking for a man who can provide for themselves and their future children. If the gentleman can not scrape together the money for a bouquet or going to the restaurant, it is unlikely that with him, you can feel yourself safe.
The ability to earn money - a big plus for men, but the most important thing - to be able to spend the money. Women appreciate men of generous and willing to spend on them. Many even believe that it is this readiness to talk about the seriousness of the intentions of men.